In 1Th 5 Now, brothers, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, 2for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. 3While people are saying, "Peace and safety," destruction will come on them suddenly, as labor pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape.
There has been alot of talk and discussion of 'birth pains'. Is our world experiencing those labor pains? Earthquakes, wars, tsunamis, hurricanes, flooding, terrorism, violent mass killings as Virginia Tech, and I could go on and on. Ladies, I bet all of you remember your labors. And to be fair, I'm sure many men do too. But women especially remember.
We look at the events over the last years and can see that similarity. The labor pains begin mild enough. Sometimes many women don't even know that they are in labor. The pains so irregular, infrequent....who knows. But as the labor progresses, ahhhh, they rise in pain, lasting longer, coming closer together.
The picture above was late in my labor. I remember holding on to that side-rail with every one of my kids as if it were my best friend (Maybe no one wanted to hold my hand for fear of broken bones, I don't know) The pain so searing, so cutting it took your breath away(and you were supposed to do your Lamaze breathing--ha-ha). I held on for dear life, breathing and praying to get through it. But I had that security. My friend, who is a L&D nurse, is a Christian and helped deliver all of my kids. Beyond medicine, she also gave me her prayer support. My sister also. I always thought, "How would I have gotten through it without their prayers and support?"
I think about these pains our world and our country have been going through. 9/11. All of the natural disasters. Columbine, VT, the Amish school killings. Are they coming more frequently? It seems like it to me. I know my kids have seen more in the last few years than I have seen my whole life. At their ages, I could not have imagined the events that they have witnessed. I am so thankful that I have Him to turn to. When things are far beyond my ability to process I can crawl in His lap for comfort, to cry, and to feel His arms around me telling me He is right here. I don't know what people do that do not have that relationship with our Heavenly Father. Whether it's denial, alcohol, drugs, work, any number of addictions or distractions they must have to do something. I am thankful that in the midst of some of these dark days I may live my life so that those who don't know Him may see that there is hope. Hope in Jesus. We need to be beacons of hope for those looking for Him. Because if we are indeed in labor, we know that there will be more hard times. But it is not a time to despair....He is coming.


67 comments:
Sue -- It's early here but have gotten 2 off to school and now taking a few minutes to catch up on this crazy box! I saw youir post at my site and wanted to respond. I'm SOOOO glad your site is back up !!! I missed you!
As for Jaisen.... what can I offer ? I understand you want to be open to hom so he can hopefully spill his little heart out.That's perfect and I can't imagine there being anything better for you to do for him right now. If I can venture a guess into his thought process so many weeks after his loss it is that he is trying to balance wanting to be normal ( a regular kid again) with still wanting to be shown preference/pity. I know the pity word sounds harsh but his wounds are still so new and still need to be coddled. It struck me hard the other day after I read that Dad wants mothers day to be joyous and not sad.
My brother and dad really hated it when I tried to make everything "normal" after my mom died. She died a few days before Christmas and I remember the following year and especially the next Christmas trying to do everything she did and make everybody feel better and surrounded by 'her'. All it did was proove that I am a poor substitute for her... because I'm ME... and no one could take her place. So all my effort caused pain instead of happy remembrances like I had aimed for. I pray that Dad will be able to mix in joy on mother's day but also allow for moments of just quiet to pour out the grief.Jaisen has the potential to become permanently silenced if he feels like he's given a window to grieve and is then expected 'to get on with life' and be happy again. My brother shut down completely because he felt like after awhile noone wanted to hear about his pain.... even though it was still there and fresh to him.
I think the opportunity to be with Rory and just hang out like a normal kid, to play and goof around is great! And then he also has you there for the times that he needs to release some of those frustrations or tears.
If I am missing the point completely, I am sorry. If there is something more specific, maybe I could be more helpful. From what I can see.... I would have loved and treasured having someone like you and your family in my life as I was experiencing all that happened. Jaisen is truly blessed to be surrounded by so much love!
Take care Sue and let me know if I can be of ANY help. Love you big sis ----- hugs ----- jen
Sue --- I hope you have a great day!!! I am honore to be able to give a little insight and it so makes the whole experience more understandable as a part of His ultimate plan! Thank you , Sue, for letting me share my thoughts with you and for your constant kind words and support!
Funny you mentioned that movie! I was thinking of renting it for my crew this weekend! Let me know what you think! We all watched Eragon last weekend and the family LOVED it ! It was a great chance for the kids to see where the plot and characters were derived from knowledge of the Bible! I was leary at first with the whole dragon thing but the writer was a homeschool kid from a good family and I thought we'd give it a shot....so glad we did!Hopefully "Night at..." will be fun too!
I'll be praying for ALL that is going on in your life right now !Enjoy your day! hugs --- jen
Sue,
That was SO very beautifully written...what a great Mother's Day story as well! Thank you, Dear Sister! God Bless you and your family!
Love Judy
Sue,
How beautifully you put this. I can almost see you hanging onto that bed rail and the whole experience of my two kids just washed over me after all of these years.
You draw a good analogy to the days we are living in and I expect we will only see the things happening increase in violence and frequency but also, I believe that the heart cry of the unsaved will be for a protector. Our cry will be to be his more completely.
You did great and I am so proud of you. Thanks also for the remarks I just read on Joel's site. I have a bad habit of not reading the previous posts until I get a longer period to read them all. Jim left the house (Yeah) and I took that time to catch up. I love him with all of my heart but I like my private times too.
Take care and keep that love going. I am still praying for you and all of your anxillary family needs.
Love,
Wilma
Sue,
Wow! When I saw your picture, I almost felt some of my old labor pains.......EEK! Not fun, eh?
However, very good content, and oh, so true!
Good idea to remove pictures of the boys, also. There are too many 'weird' people out there, to be sure. Just look at Joel's Blog right now :(
You know, I just 'happened' to be on Joel's Blog, a little while after the 'bogus' Ryan Hunter posting. As of late, what are othe 'odds' of THAT happening, what with my most current schedules at work, etc. In fact, I felt compelled to go on the Computer at that time. (I thought, to catch up) But, you can plainly see, where child of the King, was given advanced notice, by God, that this was happening there, etc. "In the mouth of two, or more witnesses....." and then you came and backed it up :)
I also agree, that I would hope that Kinderquilt would 'go blue.' And maybe she will, too.
It must make satan furious that God placed us together, for edification, and fellowship. Or, otherwise, there'd be no conflict. At least, nothing like what is occuring now. However, with us all praying, God will win, and we can claim the victory even now :)
I love you, and God bless you, and yours, too. (including Lisa's family :)
Sue -- wanted to tell you that I hope you have a blessed weekend and I'm so happy that "R" is doing better since the steroids!!! I'll be praying for all to fall into place with the gifts for Lisa's kids! Glad to read that Jaisen is reliving the "way mom does it" moments with you! Makes her not so far away!! You are an angel , Sue !! Just wanted to tell you that you are loved !! hugs -- jen
mommyjen,
I'm sad your blogspot was 'wiped' out ....what the heck? I love you, sister and your enthusiasm and support! It was fun with Jaisen yesterday! He had a real good time!
Have fun over the next few days, ok?
much love, sue
Sue,
Happy Birthday!
And may you have a wonderful day, and enjoy it with your family, too!
(forget about the worm guy, LOL. I may have to go to Joel's Blog, and 'bug' him a little bit, about him and his worms, LOL!)
Love you! And enjoy your day :)
Happy Birthday Sue!
I have been taking a break from the blog world lately, especially with all of the heavy stuff on Joel's site.
You all are so much better at taking on people posting there that I just feel better stepping away for a while. I am missing Mommyjen and Press ie posting all the links to sites though.
I do have a couple of things I wanted to share specifically with you.One of my coworkers recently had a double mastectomy and we are putting together a relay for life team for an upcoming event in a couple of weeks. I was telling them about the 3 day event that you have done. Do you have any advice about preparing for doing one of these? I think it would probably be next year ,as Becky would like to also participate and we all need time to train and fundraise, I assume.
It's funny, I have a birthday coming up in a couple of weeks(#48!!!), 2 boys in baseball,(one is a starting pitcher also), one boy in ortho with a palatal expander, and also searching for a church that is spirit- filled. How many things we have in common!
How is your church search going? Ours is not coming as soon as I would hope. My 12 year old is losing interest fast at our present church. I really enjoy the mp3 downloads from AtheyCreek Christian fellowship. They are going through the book of Daniel right now. He is such a good teacher!I download them and listen sometimes while I'm sitting through baseball preactice!
Have a wonderful birthday.
I am still holding Jaisen in prayer along with all of you grieving for Lisa.
Chris
Sue,
Happy Birthday to you my dear friend.
I hope your day is filled with only good things.
God has placed a lot of heavy things on your plate lately, but thank God He is on that plate too.
And, when He is on the plate, all the other things pale in comparison.
Have a blessed day.
I love you.
Marge,
Thank you dear sister, for the birthday wishes! I did go over to Joel's for a hot second yesterday and seen that you did get a little action in.....LOL!:) You really are missed over there!
Hope your work schedule is the improved one now. Let us know how it is going. How is hubby doing?
Much love, Sue
Chris,
Wow...we do have some things in common! Thank you so much for the birthday wishes, it was a real busy day!
I will be keeping Becky in my prayers. How old is she? Becky sounds like a young name. What is her prognosis?
The event I participate is the Breast Cancer 3-Day. You can find it at the3day.org. It is truly one of the most inspiring things you will ever do. Yes, it is demanding of your time. You must train, and fundraise, but I promise you when you are there for those 3 days you will not regret a minute of it!(Well, maybe alittle if you end up in a medical or blister tent!)
You just let me know exactly what your questions are and I will answer them all. And your kids will be astounded at what you've done, too. The opening and closing ceremonies are awesome. I don't know what state you live in but they have them all over the U.S. And maybe next year might be more realistic depending on when the walk nearest you is.
The church search is off for now. I'm at my church that I attended before I remarried and I've been back for a few years. It's o.k. It's very small but I'm looking for a little more teaching. It's not that the sermons are bad, they're not. And my kids like it there. But we'll see what God has for us.
You have a pitcher too! My boy finished the game yesterday with a win. He did pretty good, but boy was he nervous. I guess its hard being one of the two eldest(veterans) on the team. This is his fourth year. Boy you should see some of the first year boys...so tiny! Hope you guys have a great season and don't end up too sunburned for all of those hours in the stands!
Well Love ya sister,,,stay in touch. Sue
Sue,
I'm happy you had a really nice Birthday! And yes, family IS important :)
My work schedule is back to part time :) In fact, I only work today, and Monday this week. So it gets it all in at once. Not what I'd expected, but it's okay by me :) And thanks to prayer, Nutrition is going really, really well :) I believe my Manager appreciates the fact, that I'm knowledgable about the Supplements, even though I'm quite sure, I don't 'messure up,' to her expectations.......which is nothing short of perfection, LOL. Hey, they don't pay enough for THAT type of 'knowhow,' and she should become a little more realistic :) But? She's the type that keeps (kicking, not pushing) the concept, and it's her problem, and not mine, too, LOL. And, the fact that we have a 'new kid on the block,' is a distraction for her, as well HA, HA, HA, HA! (I haven't asked how our new Gal is doing, either.......as I'm not there as much......which puts a smile on my face, I must admit. However, I hope and pray that the Gal is doing alright. She knew what she was getting into, as her sister works in the Deli/Starbucks.
And the fact that half a dozen Employees have (probably more, over the years, I'm quite sure) trasfered to other Depts., or flat out quit, because of the Nutrition Manager is no news for her, I'm sure, too. Oh well, it keeps me humble to work with someone that cracks the whip, and keeps you in line, and checks your work in front of you, etc., etc. LOL. Quite the 'learning experience,' eh?
Mike is scheduled for more tests. Another upper body scan, and back X-Ray, on May the 9th. He is always in some pain, and often times impossible to please, too :)
Did I mention that all this keeps me humble, LOL! However, yesterday, we went for a ride, with the top down, on his Mustang convertible......at 60 degrees! Warm enough for him, at least :)
And we visited with Bob for awhile, and our dog got to run and play, too....for several hours. (about 4 hours, as he got to stay there, while we drove around, etc.)
Well, I'd better get to going for now. Hope you have a wonderful Sunday, too!
Love you, and God bless!
Hello Sue-
It's taken me a while to get back to the computer. You know how it goes during baseball season. Monday night was the boys' first game. They are on the same team this year,Hurray!!
Their team won in a blow out that was exciting for the boys. It was my older son's first time at starting pitching and the younger son got to start 2nd base since they were short a player. He hit 4 for 5 and had 2 doubles in his first LL game and got the game ball. I was so proud of my older son. He was just as happy for his brother as he was for himself. A good way to start out the season!
Becky is in her early 50's. She had a mammogram probably in November as I recall and after biopsy they decided her left breast definitely had cancer cells and because of the possibility of it occurring on the right, she had a double mastectomy in March. They did find a few cells in the other breast microscopically. She does not need to undergo radiation or chemo, but is having a hard time psychologically dealing with everything.The Relay For Life is the third weekend in May and we have a team of around ten people participating. She has a large extended family, which are very close, but her children are mostly on the West Coast.I'm sure she would appreciate any prayers and may God heal her heart!
She is undergoing reconstruction surgery as soon as healing is sufficient, not sure exactly when.
My neice is a jeweler and is making a watch or a bracelet for us to raffle at the Relay. I'll let you know how it goes. I do know that Becky is looking forward to doing this.
We will all look into the 3 day event and I'm sure I'll have a few questions for you.
I hope you are all doing well and have a great week for baseball!
Love, Chris
Chris,
How exciting for you with that game and having both boys on one team!(Lucky!) We always had age gaps where they were all on different teams and we had to figure out how to get everyone to practices and how to watch multiple games!
Game ball! Wow! My son loves getting game ball!
Becky is in my prayers. I've been so emotional the last few days, I seen a commercial for our local cancer hospital and was reduced to tears! I'm glad she opted for the double....I wonder how Lisa would have faired had she done that. I will tell you though if Becky has a good plastic surgeon, I'm confident she will be happy with the results. Find out if she is doing implants or a transabdominal flap. Lisa had one of each and I took care of her, so I seen her regularly. I personally thought her implant side looked more real and was nicer done. The transflap side was ok. There was alot more scarring on the transflap side. (Transflap is where they do a tummy tuck and use that flap of skin to make a breast from your own tissue.) Lisa did not like the 'hair' that grew from that flap on her 'breast'. They went low on the tummy so there was some hair growth.
I'm glad you are doing the relay and contemplating the 3-day! It is wonderful to be a part of something like that. You feel free to ask all of the questions you want. I have a wealth of knowledge from doing 3 of them already.
Well gotta go. My little guy needs to shower and finish homework....he just got done with LL practice! Tomorrow's a game!
Much love Chris,
Sue
Sue,
Maybe some sadness and grief are coming back for some more needed attention? Greiving can be so unpredicable. You're such a very special gal, Sue! I really am not sure I could have taken on even half the responsiblities you
self-lessly took on when Lisa was sick and even now after she went HOME. You are a GREAT reflection of God's love. You will be highly rewarded one day, Sister! We all love you here!
In Christ!
Judy
Sue,
I just came here, after reading about your sadness for the last couple of days, to say, what Judy said :) Probably more of the grieving process, and such. Although, Judy said it best :)
I love you, and I'm praying for you, too! God's richest blessings to you, and to yours, as well!
(I bought a book today, too :) It's called, Imposter, by Davis Bunn. (He wrote the book, The Book of Hours, which is one of my favorite books, of all time, in Christian fiction.
Judy,
You sure can tell when the gals are praying....you guys maybe right. In my head I think I'm o.k. with Lisa gone, but last night in my dreams all of my dreams were sad and I cried all night in my sleep!
I can't wait to me everyone, at the cafe Judy! Don't you find yourself feeling like you're looking forward to a family reunion!
Well I gotta hit it for now.
Marge,
Thank you dear sister for your prayers....As I said above to Judy I really feel them! I know for me PMS is a real thing but gosh I've been weepy! And you know how hubby's are with all of that. :) LOL
Keep me posted on your men! And those pups. Are you going to cry as they each leave? I always did with my kittens when I bred Himalayans. I always screened their new homes, and I would refuse to sell if I felt iffy. But at $300 a kitten, you know most people were going to be good moms and dads to my 'babies'!
Well I gotta run, and hey...thanks for all of your love and concern!
I love you too!
Hi Sue,
I am in agreement to pray over your decision about work. I, too have had that same debate with that issue. I am a stay at home mom but my "baby" is 12 years old now. Do I really NEED to "stay at home"?
One side of the debate in my mind says..NO, he doesn't need you as much anymore. He is not a baby and is responsible enough to be left home alone for a few hours before I get home form work. The extra money would be REAL nice and I would have time away from the home to make friends of my own. etc, etc
Then the other side says...YES!! You DO need to stay at home! He does need you still to be there to help him through HIS middle school "crisis'" OR "thrills". To "hear all about it" as SOON after it happens as possible with all or most of your attention given to that conversation (I drive him to and from school everyday). Yes, to being able to be the ONE who takes him to his appt, the one he tells his problems to, the one he asks advice from...just by being home for him. I know God has blessed me tremendously to be "stuck" with even having that decision to make. Steve makes plenty of money for us to have our family in this situation. I don't know your finances or other situations you are dealing with. Guess I just wanted to let you know I understand the debate you are dealing with inside you.
I didn't go to college, I started having babys when I was 19 years old. I worked for 10 years in the Black Hills of SD making Black Hills gold jewelry...have you heard of it? I set diamonds and other stones into jewelry and with that long experience, I could easily get a job with a jeweler. But we have decided with Steve traveling so much and so far away, we will keep what has been working..the old saying, if it ain't broken... ;o)
Sue, I am here for you if you need to talk!
Love Judy
Dear Sue,
You are such a sweetheart!! I was thinking, have you ever thought about being a medical transcriptionist? My sister has been a NICU nurse for 25 years and plans on doing that in a few years. I'm thinking with your nursing degree, you would already have a great understanding of alot of it...even if you have to take some classes, you'd already have alot of the credit hours with your degree. I know they make great money, work at your own pace AT HOME, and STILL get to do your great "Mom" and "wife" duties. Just a thought to consider. You can bend my ears ANYTIME, Sister!
With mucho love!
Judy
Sue,
I left a message for you, over on Judy's Blog.
I seem to be hopping all over the place. But, I'm going Off Line now :) Gotta get going for the day.
Love you guys!
Note: God established the family, before he establsihed the Church :)
Sue -- you are so dear to me!!! I have read your comments as of late and can feel the sadness. I am so sorry!!! I do hope that you know how much I love you and how blessed all those in your life are to have you with them... showing them the power of the Lord as you shine with His love and wisdom each day!!
If I were with you right now I'd give you a huge bear hug that would sqeeze all those tears right out so that there could only be room for light-hearted laughter! You have been through so very much this past year and it is time for you to take rest and shelter in His arms!!
Look up, Sue!!! Look up and know that Lisa, my mom, and all those who have gone on to the Lord are smiling at you and I!!! They are anxious for our arrival!!!They are present in His kingdom and He is present in us.... we are all still together in the Spirit!!!The mysteries of God are truly amazing !!!
Father, keep Sue in your protective hands and offer her daily reminders and reassurances of your presence as she lets you take her through this life.Bring a warm smile to her face and let there be no room for sadness today... only knowledge of the joy in You and the joy that awaits us (and has already been received by our departed loved ones)in your kingdom yet to come!!!In Jesus' name I ask this of You ,Father!!
Have a wonderful day, Sue!!! Lots of big bear hugs---- jen
Dear Sue-
I know what you mean about those sudden intense soul-wrenching pangs of saddness. I lost my Dad to kidney disease 8 years ago and sometimes out of nowhere Wham! I still get those. My Mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's when Dad got sick, so it was like losing both parents at the same time, really. I have grieved for both of them(the way I remember them) for a long time.
I prayed the whole time that my mother was sick that she would not be violent or vulgar, as that would have appalled her. God answered those prayers, but there were times I had to sit in my car crying for a while after I visited her.It was sad to see her there physically without her being there mentally.
I know you worry for Lisa's family. You just remember that God will take care of them, too. You are there for Jaisen and he needs that. Sure, he's mad and hurting, but he knows there's a safe harbor at your home.
God bless you Sue. I will be praying that God heals your pain.It just shows how much you loved her that you feel this way.
Love you,
Chris
Dearest Chris,
Thanks so much for sharing about your mom and dad. Sometimes I am amazed at for how very short of a time Lisa and I were friends(8mos.) how close we actually were. You are so right. I loved her fiercely. I have about 3 really close girlfriends, all that I have known 20+ years...and I have to say that there was just something between Lisa and I that was different. I knew it the instant we met.
Isn't it going to be something when we are all reunited. I don't just mean all of our loved ones, Chris....I really do believe we were all brought into each others lives through Joel's blog and now at Child's for some divine purpose. I think each of us there have felt love towards each other in a way we probably can't explain unlike our friends, family, church family, etc.
I'm praying that you feel God's presence also during this coming year. You have been through alot also my sister. I don't know how long you were at Child's but my days as a nurse were in the Geropsychiatry area. I LOVED taking care of my patients like your mom. And yes, it was always hardest on the families. People always asked us nurses, how do you do this,,,isn't it too sad?
I found that most of the patients were in their own world, and with good care were happy for the most part. Even if they did not seem like they were there to most people. We nurses would catch glimpses of them in the most mundane situations. Like toileting or pet therapy. Every once and again we would see a little glimmer that there was someone inside that head of theirs. I agree too, most families went through grieving way before that patient would pass. Well, I guess you are going through the additional pain that my mom calls 'orphan syndrome'. It's something she says that no matter how 'old' you are when both of your parents are gone you grieve differently being an orphan. Don't be a stranger,,,I know you probably are going to have alot to do in the coming days and weeks, but I hope you still will have time to post. Take care and much love, Chris.
Sue,
Leave the picture! Don't cave in to the 'nuts' out there, LOL.
Gotta run, for real! Love you, and God bless!
Sue,
I truly believe that God used your love drenched reply to "D" to bring him to Christ.
The love and acceptance and forgiveness that you showed him just melted me...and him too.
Thank you for, again, being used of God and being such a great example of love in the trenches!
Grace
hey there, my sister!
I have been running in and out lately, lots of end of school year stuff going on, you know.
I have checked on more than I have checked in...I read around, but sometimes, there isn't anything I want to add. I don't feel the need to get into the denomination debate, I was very annoyed at D until he (Praise God)turned around, (Wasn't that so awesome?!), and I really wish that mary patterson would go somewhere else to protest the war. I pray for her, she really needs it. I read and try to keep up, but I have been playing outside too. The birds, the garden, the pool, we are putting in a pond this weekend. But I try to at least read.. I posted to you on Joel's or Child's, I am really praying for you and the whole family as H is going thru a difficult time, all of you are really. I do know how it is, Michael's oldest, then 15, would play a lot of games to try to manipulate things to get his way. Unlike H, N was not serious, just playing emotional blackmail. To go thru it for real is much scarier. I am praying for healing for you all, and even if you have to celebrate it later...Happy Anniversary! I love you dearly!
God Bless!
Love, Faith
Hi Dear!
I do, really do, understand your situation! You definitely have my prayer and support! I think about you daily and of course in my study time and prayer, you and yours are right up there!
Kurt is doing ok, most of the time. Unless he has been to his mom's and his brother is around. N isn't very nice to Kurt, but K wants to love and look up to his brother so much....He tries to please. So, he comes home different than when he left. I pray for him daily too, and love him constantly. What other options do I have, right? You know how that goes. Other than that every other week time, He and Boo are both doing well! Excited about the end of school and summer break!!!
Hope you all are doing fine. How is baseball going? Is Jaisen doing better?
You know, I watch and read what is going on around us and I can't help but wonder how soon we are to going home. I can't wait! Can't you just feel it?!
Have a blessed day, my sister! I love you!
Faith
Sue -- Just got done catching up after much time away and wanted to tell you that you are at the TOP of my prayer list!!! I thought of Job as I read about all that is going on in your life... the devil must know how truly dedicated you are to your Savior!!And better yet, God knows it too and He's got your back!!!! I'll be lifting all of your loved ones up and you too, sister!!! Prayers going up... full steam ahead!!!Love you!!! Hugs!! -jen
Oh!! And wanted to ask how mother's day went for Jaisen and his family !! I kept praying for them!!
LOVE YOU!!!!! ---jen
Hey Sweeheart!
NO WAY are you annoying me!!!! I love to hear from you, and I think if we were closer, we would definetly be friends over for mornig coffee! I think of you every day, esp during my prayer time, you are always there on my lists!
I think of you as an inspiration to me, you are so loving and giving!
Stop by anytime! I love you! And I am glad to see your messages!
How did things go this weekend? Any improvement with H or her mother? Does her mother even realize how serious this is?
I love you sister! And still praying over you and yours! Have a blessed day!
Love you,
Faith
Sue,
I just read your message, at child of the King's Blog.
Remember, that God is always very near the broken hearted :)
I love you!
Sue,
Okay, last night it was whiskey, so this evening we'll swing over to supplements, LOL.
This is from Julian Whitaker's Health newsletter, but more importantly, I KNOW it works, as I've tryed it, and all I can say is WOW!
GABA to the Rescue
Gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA) is more than an amino acid. It is also one of the central nervous system's most important inhibitory neurotransmitters, meaning it stimulates receptors that inhibit, or calm down, activity in the brain. It works, in a sense, in opposition to the excitatory neurotransmitters that rev the brain up. Obviously these two types need to be in balance, and taking supplemental GABA when you're restless, anxious, or irritable helps restore necessary equilibrium.
Anyway, I know that Twin Lab (brand) makes GABA, and I've taken it, with excellent results. Just a thought, and something for you to prayfully consider, too.
Love you, and God bless you a bunch!
Hi Sue-
I was just trying to catch up on Child's blog. It's been days since I've been at my computer.When I saw your comment about canker sores,I figured I might have better luck connecting with you here. I am a dental hygienist and see outbreaks occassionally. They are many times associated with stress. Also with a diet high in acid (tomatoes, cantaloupe when gardens come in)
Also can be viral. Ask your Dr for a Rx for "magic swish"It's 1/3 maalox,1/3benadryl,1/3 viscous lidocaine. Will take away the pain and help heal the sores.Sorry I didn't catch this sooner.
I've been doing well. It's a crazy time of year with baseball, school ending soon, and dealing with details of Mom's.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers. You sure have had to deal with a lot.Keep leaning on Jesus!
After reading Child's blog, I don't even think I'll read Joel's. Just keep praying for his family's protection, too.
Take care Sue
Love, Chris
Hey Sweetheart!
Just checking on you all...hope R is feeling better. And the rest of you guys too! This is a late start for R's asthma, maybe his flare ups won't be as many this year! (I will pray that one.)
Have a great day!
Love you and God Bless!
Faith
Sue,
I had to laugh when you told us, your husband's response after you told him about your dream. Not because it's funny, or anything......just pretty typical.
I had an extremely VIVID dream, about 30 years ago, now. David was just a baby, and I was listening to Kenneth E. Hagin, on radio, and reading his books, etc. Well, there was a question (I don't recall the question, anymore!) that I would have loved to have asked him, and I prayed, (something along these lines) Oh Jesus! You know the answer to everything, (I believe it was a Faith related question) and I would like so much to know the answer to this, and I'd LOVE to ask Kenneth Hagin, if I could, etc. I know, it was a kinda 'dumb' prayer, BUT, I received an even stranger reply, LOL. (God knows us, better than we know ourselves) Anyhow, I was sitting in a Cathedral, somewhere, and in the the pew, in front of me, (before the service) who should turn around and answer my question, but Kenneth Hagin! It was SO VIVID, it seemed to me to be more than a dream. Almost like a vision would be......but I was asleep. Anyhow, I said, all that, to say this......when I related this to MY husband, he said......(something along these lines, as it's been a loooong time :) "Well, you always did have an active imagination. AND if you asked Jesus to answer the question, why did Kenneth Hagin show up? It sounds to me like you've been overdoing your Bible studies, and gotten yourself 'carried away'....." Anyway, that deflated my entire experience enough, to 1. keep things to myself, and 2. limit my conversation of anything 'out of the norm' to my Mother, LOL. Anyway, her comment was, "well, Jesus DID answer your question thru Kenneth Hagin!"
You'd be surprised just how many 'Christians' aren't comfortable with you, if you say, that "God talks to you." (THEIR interpetation of you walking with God, and the Holy Spirit communicating with your spirit.) I just felt led to share with you, this afternoon, while I'm taking a housework break. Not a lot. But, a little housework :) I am taking it easy, and I plan to, to get my strength back, and such.
Anyway, much love to you, my dearest sister in Jesus!
I will be praying for your youth group! May the Lord prepare their hearts for watching this message. Please let me know how it goes and if you have further prayer requests or praises!
Sue,
A little update on GABA :)
When I wrote, and gave you the quote, from Dr. Julian Whitaker, I was going to also tell you, that I heard about GABA about 20 years ago, but I didn't do it, because I couldn't remember the Gal's name. And wouldn't it be just like me, to say, that I'd heard a Testimony about the healing benefits from GABA on a T.V. Christian talk show, LOL. But, as God would have it, I got a mailing from Stang Communications, and guess who is publishing her books now? (of course, Strang Communications :)
Anyway, her name is Janet Maccaro, and she has several books out now.
A Woman's Body Balanced by Nature.
90 Day Immune System Makeover
Natural Health Remedies
Breaking the Grip of Dangerous Emotions
Midlife Meltdown
all by, Janet Maccoro, PhD, CNC
I'm considering buying all 4 of her books, as you save 50% if you order them all :) And I'll probably do it, tomorrow, as it is up my line, and I can learn a few things, and pass on the knowledge, at work, Church, or where ever God leads. But, I wanted to let you know about them, if you're at all interested :) Because she said, in her interview, that GABA really brought her out of a deep, dark depression. One of the natural things, that God lead her too.
I love you, and may God continue to bless and keep you, too!
Sue,
Hey, that's FIVE books, and THEY say four, LOL! You gotta love that
one :)
That turns out to be a BETTER deal, than they may think, LOL!
Hey lady, thanks for braving my blog! I am actually doing much better, and though my weird pain is undiagnosed, it has COMPLETELY subsided since I started taking muscle relaxers. What an answer to prayer! I wish I had more time to stay up to date with everyone!
Blessings to you sister.
Kacey
Sue -- had to drop by and say Hi!!!! My friend that was waiting to hear if she had breast cancer is FINE!!!! Praise the Lord!!! In fact she just finished the race for the cure in DC this weekend and walked in memory of my mom. I shed a few tears for you sister as I know your race will be difficult and very emotional!! Hope you know how much you are loved !!! Hugs from VA !!! --- jen
Hi Daughter,
It's me, the REAL Kinderquilt. I finally went blue, and Child and Marge think I'm Josh pretending to be me! I can't win :( So, I thought I'd try one more time at your sight and see if you all believe it's me. If not, oh well. I'm still thinking of Lisa's family and the loss they suffered. I can't imagine the pain a little child suffers at the loss of a parent. Are you still in close contact with them? I know God has used you there and will continue to. How is the running going? I'm sure you have given updates, but I haven't read your posts yet. I'm still trying to convince people I'm me :/ Well, I'm going to put a post on Child's and Marge's blog and see if they believe me. Pray for me, okay? Thanks, Daughter. I love you and look forward to the day we meet at the cafe!
Hi Daughter
Amazing post you put in there! I think we have plenty of pangs to come and it really seems to be heating up! Follow the story in Northern Iraq of Turkey sending in troops. It is amazing how the world press hardly utters a word. Nothing was on CNN, BBC or Sky B news stations last night and not a word has been mentioned on our local radio or TV stations. I hope your marathon walk went well. How are the kids doing from both your families? Your immediate family is covered by you but what about Jaisen and his sister and Dad? Just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you all.
Yours in Christ
jeri
Jen,
Glad to hear the news about your friend and your walk! Sounds like you have a nice summer planned...you check in with us all once and awhile o.k. girl?
Love to you and ----hugs of course
Kinderquilt,
Well with everything we have been through at Joels and on personal sites, forgive the suspicion!!! Child operates with direction from the Holy Spirit, so yes I will definitely be keeping you in prayer so that the truth is made known!
I haven't been running tho! I walk. The Michigan 3-day 60 mile walk is in September! I've been having some trouble with my heels and joints this go round so I'm hoping my new shoes will help!
Everyone posts at Child's....she's the central meeting place! I think you should try and jump in but open up a bit so they can 'feel' like its you.
I do keep in touch with Lisa's family. They have been quite busy. God is helping them with their loss. It has been the hardest for the little boy however. I can't imagine being that little and not having your mommy. Especially when you had the most wonderful mommy a boy could ask for. I think of her everyday as well.
Well I must go sister,,,keep in touch, o.k.? Till the cafe!
Much love
Hey Jeri,
Ive been a bit busy lately. Hope you are still checking in with all of us....I left you a quick note at Child's too in case you went there.
How's the Doom and Gloom?
Both my 'families' are doing well. Lisa's family is taking it a day at a time. The little boy will always have a piece of my heart however. I just got a part-time job as a registered nurse in a case management position. I believe it is going to be a wonderful opportunity.
Please check in with us Jeri and let us know how things are going your way and how the family is too. We all enjoy your posts!
Sue,
I'll bet you are excited about your new part time job! And I'm so happy that it is part time too :)
Time to get back into the field of Nursing, and you'll still be home, for the most part, for your son, and daughter, etc. Good for you!
I love you, and may God go with you, where ever you go!
Good Morning Sister Sue,
Just thought I'd come to your place for a visit. I haven't seen you over a Child's yesterday. I'll bet you are having some good old quality family time this weekend! Gotta get that in as often as you can!!
Things are going fine here. Just 3 more sleeps to go and Steve will be home. Beamer has already planned a fishing trip, ha. I am thankful he will be home in time to spend Fathers Day with us! We are all just so blessed!!
How are "things" at your house? Do you all have big Father's Day plans next Sunday? Maybe a pool party and barbeque?
Well, hope you have a GRAND Lord's day and please know, you are always being thought about, prayed for and loved!
Love Judy
Sue ---- please forgive me.I posted on Child's this am and then went back and saw your comment. I am acting like a child and you always show such grace as you tackle each day and numerous tasks.I pray that I will learn to approach my life and marriage the way that you do and that my selfishness will soon leave and be replaced by something beautiful like what I see when I read your daily accounts. You are an inspiration. Just had to say thank you. hugs from me to you--- jen
Hello there!
I know it has been a while since I have posted, even been online! I just wanted to check in with you and everyone to let you in on what is up here.
My dad is doing well. He gets PT/OT at home a couple times a week and he is strengthening and working on balance. He is in pretty good spirits too! Sara is doing great with the neighbor's horses! She will be independent with them in no time! Kurt just returned from a trip to Wash, DC, and had a real good time. Lots of pictures!
As for me, I will be having a hysterectomy on June 25. I have had trouble with endometriosis for years and now have been found to have fibroids. We are ok with the decision, actually quite relieved, but surgery is still a big thing, even tho I am recruiting my friends at work to take care of me! (Sometimes, it is GOOD to have an IN at the hospital!) I will probably be quiet at that time, since the computer is downstairs and I will be up. BUT! I will try to check in to give you a progress report!
I pray you and yours are doing well! Glad to hear you seem to be enjoying the job! That is terrific! I am still so praying for H. I hope that you can get her in with someone who will not be snowed or give in to the "feely feely" crap. Teens can be so manipulative, especially if they have learned it from a pro, as in our case.
Love you sweetie! I will try to pop in soon! God Bless!
Love, Faith
Hey there!
The new job sounds awesome! You will enjoy it, the new challenges and involvement, our kind of people, love helping others...We just can't help it, can we? I wish I had tips on organization...I keep my date book close by and write everything down...and sometimes I am still flying by the seat of my pants! That's when I ask the Lord for an extra angel or two for extra lift on my flight!
How cool for R to make the All Stars! Bet he is so happy! And his asthma is staying in check so far? The summer hasn't been too bad yet, I hope it stays that way for our regular asthmatics here. Still got H in prayer too. Any progress?
You sure seem to be terribly busy! Dont forget to stop once in a while and smell the flowers you worked so hard to plant! It remeinds me of this thing my aunt told me once. She said she saw one of those "God" bill boards along the high way. This one said something like, "Don't sweat it, My Child. Remember, Moses started out as a basket case too." I loved it! Kinda reminds you that when you are overwhelmed, let Him know!
Take care sweetheart...Check out all the news. Sounds like the plans here on earth won't matter much and we will be hugging in His presence soon anyway! Isn't that cool!
God Bless you my sis! Have a great one!
Love, Faith
Hi Daughter,
Sorry about the walk/run mixup :( I hope the new shoes work. I'll take your advice and go to Child's blog. God bless you and yours. CU there :) K
Sue,
I appreciate the fact that you really believe that the blue "kinderquilt" is really Kinderquilt.
However, I do not.
I think it is fine if you want to entertain him on your blogspot. But he is not welcome on mine. I told Josh he needs to confess up and until he does, I will delete any comments he posts on my blogspot.
Please do not encourage him to go to my site.
Thank you.
Sue,
I hope things went well, with all your had to do in the way of housework, and getting ready to entertain all your guests, etc. Wow! However, how are you feeling?
I miss hearing from you!
Much love and a big God bless you, too!
Faith,
I hope that you are recovering from your surgery. I just found out about it this morning, as I read your post to Sue. Let us know how you are doing, too, okay? Because I also have missed reading your comments, and such, too :) Much love and a big God bless you, to you, also!
Hi Dear One!
I am just terrible about reading my own blog! I just tonight (Tues) discovered your very loving post at my place. I am always busy reading over at Child's and Beamer said to me the other day, you are taking too long. I piped in and said...you're just jealous cause I'm on line chatting with Babes all day! haha LOL...He laughed and said he was proud of me on that quick one! haha
You are such a darling to me and I ALWAYS look forward to seeing you post!! You never fail to either make me LOL (alot!) or melt from the great compassion you show others or get emotional from one mama with problems/great times to another mama with alot of the same problems/great times. I KNOW we have been brought together along with all our Sisters for a mighty purpose...and I am SO GRATEFUL!! Thank you, DEAR Father!
We did have a great time this weekend. Steve is just one of those guys that works hard but loves his family harder! I am still so in love with him after all these years! I am mightily blessed!
Speaking of PMS...the night Steve got home, we weren't able to have any "fun" (wink wink) as my "Aunt Flo" arrived in town! haha That's our little code for my visitor. ha So, we'll have to make some alone time later on. You know, even though I am 43, I can't wait for menapause...I already get mental-pause but that's ANOTHER story! haha Mom went through it in her early 50's without any problems at all and I tend to go along with her on these things so...just gotta hang in there awhile longer. I am so like you, weeping at commercials and the tv guide this week has Princess Diana on the cover...YUP,I cried! LOL BUT, there are those OTHER months when life is not so much weepy but let's just say..."my fruit of the spirit" basket has a big hole in it! haha
Well, dear Sue, I pray to our Father in Heaven that your first day of your job on Monday next week goes really good. God wants to use those talents He has gifted you with. You really do have a compassionate heart! I know you are probably nervous, but you know God will be walking along with you every step of the way!
I think you should go to the mall this weekend and get some new summer dress clothes and shoes. I love to clothes shop but usually for home decoration more.
I hope you have a GRAND time with the coasters later this week. We really do love to go to the parks and ride all the rides...even the wet ones!
So since you have full lips which are chapped & hurting real bad...can I assume you have really big talons as well? haha okay, I know, I'm stretching it again...haha LOL
Love you SO MUCHES, Sister Sue!!
Judy
Faith,
If you are reading this, I just want to tell you I am so going to pray for your surgery on Monday to go without a hitch and your healing comes Godspeed!! Please keep us posted when you can. Monday is a big day for both you and Sue! Prayers will be lifted high for both of you!!
Love Judy
Hi Daughter
Sorry but only clocked in to your Blog today and read your reply.
I am so pleased to hear that your other family is getting it together. It will take prayer, time, patience and lots of love but hang in there. My brother's wife lost her husband (who was having an affair), her mom, her dad and 2 sons all in 8 years and in between married my brother, which was God's way of saving them both. My brother had not yet found The Lord and Karen needed someone to lean on. Karen's strength and faith in God brought my brother to The Lord and saving my brother gave Karen the will to go on. Amazing how all things work for Him. Just needed to share that with you.
We are in mid winter here in South Africa but have only had 2 cold snaps with coldest temperatures and heaviest snow falls in 30 years, as well as floods and a heat wave with temperatures running in 90's...weird but we know where it is coming from! Weather patterns worldwide are going wild but it is Global Warming of course, yup right!!!! Really feel that things are screaming along but the rest of the world have stuck their heads in the sand and will not see or hear what we are saying. I am still Mr. Doom & Gloom at home. All I can do is pray.
Yours in Christ
jeri
Hey Jeri,
Thanks for dropping in! Its always good to hear from you brother! Yeah, I'm glad my 'other' family is doing better too....it is indeed going to take more time tho. I would like to spend alot more time with my boy Jaisen, but I guess dad has him in a summer program.. We have a beautiful pool and he loves swimming at my house. I just started a new job as a nurse case manager so if you could send up a few prayers my way that all goes well(I've been out of the field for almost 9 years!) that would be great!
I have been really busy and haven't gotten over to Joels site as often as before but I try to read posts. Hope is still well with you 'Mr. Doom and Gloom' LOL heeeehehehh ;o)
Hey Sweet Sis!
Thank you for stopping by! I am one week post op and doing well! All stitches were dissolved or internal and bruising is minimal. I haven't needed any perc since Thurs. I am walking around and will go to the store today! I even cleaned out Boo's room!
Thank you so much for keeping track of me and sending prayer....it definietly helps! The Lord has been great, my healing is His! I love Him so much! And You too!
I am glad the job is going well! You needed a bit of a challenge, and this is good for you. It will help you to focus your mind on helping others, and doing so much for them. You have a flair for that anyway, the Lord is just using your gifts in a different venue! And so many others that will benefit from your work! You go Girl!
Praise the Lord! Have a BLEESED day!
Love, Faith
Hi Dear Sue!
I know it's been awhile since I've visited, but I don't like to post on Joel's blog because bad experiences... so I try to go to individual blogs to say Hey. How have you been? I see you got a new job and are liking it. God bless you...not everyone likes their jobs. I'm happy the Lord has blessed you with one you really enjoy. I think you were apprehensive about it before you started, right? It's good to be wrong sometimes, huh? :)
I'm currently looking for a job, too. I hate being unemployed, but the Lord is in control. I've been reading about waiting on Him and that He does things in His own time. Also about not worrying about tomorrow as He always provides for today. Of course, that's easy to say, but not so easy to do!
If you've been walking lately, remember to hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! (I'm sure you need to be told that...NOT!) Stop by and say hi when you get a chance. I just discovered that I'm not allowed on Child's blog because she still thinks I'm Josh, so I have to visit other blogs or just use my own. Oh well...in time she will know the truth. I look forward to that day...I've got a big HUG for her :) God bless all yours, Daughter. I love you!
Sue,
You mentioned having 'bouts of PMS.
Have you ever tryed progesterone cream? I may have told you about it before, but I don't remember :)
It's really some GOOD stuff! And if you're at all curious about it, you can read Dr. John Lee's book on it. As he pioneered the research of it. Anyway, I believe it just might do wonders for you, and your symptoms. As the old saying goes,......it's worth a shot! LOL.
I'm glad you're enjoying your new job! It sounds like something you'd do well in, and also like.
God bless you, and much love!
Hi Sue,
I got your post. I will see about getting "hooked up" with another IM account. I wrote down your email adress and messenger info and will, for security reasons, delete your post.
I am being selfish but I sure do miss getting to "see" you as much as I used to. But I am THRILLED that your job is getting better and better. Soon, you'll be the one training someone new! Love that you take R with you too!
I've got Marge and Mike on my mind and heart today! I pray that all goes well! Marge is SO great, isn't she?! She is involved with EVERYONE and treats everyone like there is no one else more important than them (the person she is talking to). She reminds me so much of my Mom! Mom has six kids and we each feel as tho WE are her favorite...that much individual love she shows...Bless their hearts!
Anyways, I will talk to you laters...If that's "whatever I WANNA do, GAW!!!" LOL
Love YA, dear one!
Judy
Judy,
You are so sweet!
Thanks for the kind words :)
Sue,
I saw your post on, child of the King's Blog, about working this weekend, etc. I'm hoping that your new job won't take too much of your time with your family, and friends. However, after summertime things should calm down, right? Or are you gonna go with more hours, and responsibilities?
I'm also thinking that your 'run' is out of the question, with your new job, and such. Although, perhaps it is time to let up a little, as you mentioned pain in your foot? Anyhow, believe you me, there are times, to give your body a 'break,' and ease up on those joints and muscles, as they can begin to 'talk to you,' as you age. Hey, in my case, at 60 years old? They have begun to scream at me, when I overdo it, LOL. And I've alway been in pretty good physical shape, too.
In fact, one of my best friends and I were talking a few days ago, about how our body shapes are 'changing.' And she's about a size 10. We both figured we'd have to go 'up' a size, just to have enough room, for out 'ever enlarging' middle section :( Drat! But no worries for you, as you've got quite a few years before that fact of nature catches up to you :)
Well, I just wanted to stop on by, and say, how much I love you, (Judy, too!) and that I'm praying that your job becomes easier and easier with each passing day, too!
Sue,
I lift you and your requests up in prayer. That you and others will be comforted.
Then your light shall break forth like the dawn,
and healing shall spring up quickly.
Isaiah 58:8
Who his own self bore our sins in his body on the tree, that
we, being dead to sin, should live unto righteousness, by
whose stripes we were healed.
I Peter 2:24
He sent his word, and healed them, and
delivered them from their destructions.
Psalm 107:20
Daughter your faith has made you well, go in peace,
And be Healed of your disease.
Mark 5:34
Whatever you ask for in Prayer with faith you will receive.
Matthew 21:22
And said, If thou wilt diligently hearken to the voice of the
Lord thy God, and wilt do that which is right in his sight,
and wilt give ear to his commandments, and keep all his statutes,
I will put none of these diseases upon thee, which I have
brought upon the Eqyptians: for I am the Lord that healeth thee.
Exdous 15:26
Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases.
Psalm 103:3
My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.
Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst
of thine heart. For they are life unto those that find them
and health to all their flesh.
Proverbs 4:20-22
But he was wounded for our transgressions he was bruised
for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was upon him;
and with his stripes we are healed.
Isaiah 53:5
Heal me, O Lord and I shall be healed; save me,
and I shall be saved; for thou art my praise.
Jeremiah 17:14
Oh amen and amen girl!!
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